I am glad we got a chance to clear things up, Serene. As Al said, this area of the forum is just a place to ask questions, it doesn't mean someone is considered a fraud.
One of the organizers of an event at Rowe Conference Center was telling people you were going to do a ceremony before an event there. He was making it sound like it would be a traditional ceremony. Some of the people who were planning on attending the event asked me to ask here if anyone knew you. Some time after I asked here, another friend of ours emailed with you and you told her you were just going to offer an opening prayer, not a traditional ceremony. She was reassured that you were clear on the difference between a prayer and ceremony, and I suggested that a few other people also offer prayers or songs as part of the opening circle.
Again, glad to hear from you. I assume the problem was with the motivations, communication style, and lack of understanding of traditional cultures on the part of the organizer who was spreading your name around.