NON -Native don't listen and think they have some sort of right to other people belief, they are thief and steal from a people who hold these ways in their hearts, I find that Non Native "who want to be us" are usually mental ill or damaged in some sort of way that they are looking for a quick fix to their problems instead of dealing with their issues, they come from background of abuse, or just plain unhappy with their world so they want to steal another world, when our ways are too hard for them they change them to fit their quick fix, like a junkie on heron, Then if you says "No can do that", they get mad, get defensive like a person who has their drugs taken from them.
Earth, I'm new to this forum, but wanted to comment on this statement in particular. I was associated with the NeoPagan community in Columbus Ohio for maybe 3 years. I witnessed the appropriation of many cultures' beliefs. Things I did not agree with.
Many who want to do this to the native belief systems are themselves ungrounded. They are under the false impression that stealing someone's culture will provide the culture they lack. Perhaps, they are too lazy to ferret out their own cultural heritage.
Furthermore, non-Natives live in a world of religious and ceremonial smorgasbord where anything goes. Regarding native ways, a former acquaintance of mine said " anything that benefits me spiritually, I'm entitled to" and my response was, " the people that made that spiritual path are entitled to allow or disallow whatever they choose for it is their path". To these ones, the native path is another spiritual"meal" they can eat free of charge or so they delude themselves into thinking.
Which brings to a third point, the matter of respect. The people who do this have no respect for any faith or cultural spiritual path. I doubt if they respect themselves. In this, they are to be pitied.
I truly wish there was an answer to end it. Perhaps, one day, people will wake up and find that respecting another's cultural heritage is a joyous thing and, then, the need to steal it will vanish.