Thank you Educatedindian for moving the posts and giving the thread it's proper name.
"Fraud" name calling cuts deep and makes me very angry when I hear it time and time again from non-Natives, who do not know what they are talking about.
F.e.x.
The earlier British lawmakers in this country saw it fit to forcibly remove thousands of Australian Aboriginal children from their parents and their communities to be brought up in institutions or white foster homes in order to "civilize" and to "train" them.
These children lost their language and most often their tribal origins were concealed from them. Some 1/4 Aboriginal children were even told that they were Greek, Italian, Asian or descendants of some other culture. Not to mention all the drama of physical and sexual abuse in these institutions ...... the pain and suffering of the families from whom these children were taken away ..... the list goes on and on ....
Then to add an insult to the injury; - when these "Stolen Generation" people now are seen by some Britts, they are judged as not being "real" Aborigines for not speaking their own language nor knowing the details of their own specific culture.
And that to me is just the "cherry on the top of the cake" !
I have heard many, many stories from people who have been in "Missions", listened to the stories by the "Stolen Generation" people telling me what they have gone through, and about their difficult journey back finding their long lost relatives, reconnecting with the culture etc. etc.
Even though I am not an Australian Aboriginal nor a "Stolen Generation" child, still in many ways I can identify with the situation having gone through a similar kind of "mill".
I know exactly what it is like, to be a "lost soul" in the world, because your Native identity was concealed from you. And no, the skin colour is not an issue, unless of course the skin colour of your mother and especially your grandmothers happens to be the "wrong" one. And even though the danger for safety, because of the skin colour and Native looks passes, the silent fear still lingers on, and the concealment for the grand kids "own good". Well, it wasn't, but I cannot judge them for thinking for our future survival.
I do not wish to get into telling my story further on this forum at this very point anyway.
When it comes to "selling Native culture" commercially. Tourists love it, others judge it as superficial and fake, there are many opinions. But in the end of the day, I see that it is the only employment opportunity many have. And as such it comes to the difference between living, what non-Natives would call normal life, (and having opportunities they take utterly for granted), and that of living in a "third wold" type of powerty, health problems, low self esteem, alcoholism .... etc. etc. conditions.
So how
dare non-Natives judge !
To my knowledge, not a single one says 'find out what they have been through', 'understand their journey', or anything similar. That kind of thing is, however, routinely said by frauds and their dupes.
Barnaby McEwans
This quote is exactly what I mean, a perfect demonstration of "fraud" name calling by a non-Native, who doesn't know what he is talking about, and yet chooses to act like the real "Native Police", knowing the law in the matters of choice of words that
should be used by an indigenous person or regarding other indigenous persons.
A friend of mine told this joke about how Westerners now taking Indigenous Culture courses soon enough will turn around and say: "What do
y-o-u know about Indigenous Culture .....
you're just an aboriginal".Laughed at that joke, thought it was too funny, but that joke doesn't seem so funny anymore.
And do you
honestly think that there isn't truth in that ? (A question aimed at the Natives here).
Has the Western
concept of what a true Aboriginal person should or shouldn't be like become the yardstick an Aboriginal person now needs to live up to in order to be "real" ?
Also to be worrying about the abuser's feelings getting hurt ..... Been there, done that, even till relatively recently, and got the wake-up-call of my life for my concerns. (Hence the attitude)
"Traditional politeness and all" that; - is hard to shed, but at least I've learned to think twice (touch wood) before extending my openness to people who do not deserve it, let alone understand "where I am coming from", even if I spell it out and pour my guts and heart out explaining it.
A.R.
P.S.
And have I been given permission from Aboriginal Elders and Educators to speak about Australian Aboriginal issues ?
Yes I have, I was taught for this very reason.
Do I wish to drop names ?
No. Not at this point anyway.