Knox, either your short term memory is terrible, or you just don't bother to read before you keep exploding in anger half-cocked.
Because one of the first posts in this thread is me posting my letter to the Religion Editor of the Springfield paper. Unlike you, I do my research, and I take great care to know what I'm talking and consider carefully what to do.
Like Barnaby said, you don't seem to have matured at all since you were 14. You don't have the maturity to drive, much less be a guide to anyone on their spiritual path. You live in your la la fantasyland where white suburbanites can call themselves a "tribe" and not expect to get laughed at.
A lot of this debate has turned on what to call yourself. You say you're not Native?
Fine. Quit using Native cultures (or the Faux version of them you keep falling for) to give legitimacy to what you do and claim.
It's simple. Strike all claims of having learned from Natives or Native culture on your site and call yourself what you are: A Pagan, one influenced by the Pseudo-Shamanism movement, which is itself made up of disrespectful frauds like Michael Harner. (Harner is a pariah to both Natives and among his former profession of anthropology, in case you didn't know.)
For your own good as well as those of your own pseudo-tribe, why not learn from ACCURATE and respectful sources? Most of the whites at NAFPS are either pagans themselves or former Nuagers who learned the hard way. And they'd be first to tell you it's better to know the truth than to live a lie.
THEY are the ones who've debated you most often and most vigorously in case you hadn't noticed.
If you want common ground, to me seeking out the truth should be that common ground.
Why not find out the TRUTH about "Barb"? Call up the Lumbee tribe, or take Joseph up on his offer and and get in touch with the many Lumbee he knows.
Why not find out the TRUTH about your ALLEGED Lakota who gave you the pipe? I suspect that like "Barb", he's not who he claims to be.
You're right, I do have far more of a beef with this alleged Lakota who deceived you. And I'm interested in knowing more about him.
I also hope you'll consider reading accurate and respectful sources on your REAL heritage, which you said was Cherokee. To me, THAT is your real tribe, and you should honor your ancestors by learning about them.