FYI.... I never EVEN KNEW the Chief until 2 years ago, so there is even MORE false information (LIES) I, and many others HAVE personally seen ALL the information and evidence about the Chief to backup who he is!!! I have seen him in his Masonic gear, there are pictures of him in his Masonic gear, so no need to be surpised that he is anymore. The 2005 issue was retracted in writing and a sincere apology sent by the person who wrote it. Someone needs to get their information in order!!!! HAS THIS PERSON WHO IS WRITING ALL THESE LIES SEEN THIS INFORMATION AND EVIDENCE?
? NO!!!!...... because HE is not important enough. Someone has suceeded in making a FOOL of himself. THE lies and claims of the Chief being a fraud will be SOMEONES undoing. Man or mouse? Definitely mouse.
Random Question for David: who's next? More Dowsers? The little old lady crossing the street?? The girl guide selling cookies??? ohhhh, I know............ the boy scouts!!!! Anyone can spend years and years trying to find something negative and false about me!!! NO ONE NEVER WILL, why? BECAUSE I AM an honest person and have NEVER BEEN, nor WILL BE a fraud!!! I am the mother of 3 grown children who have become good citizens and show people respect. I am the one many come to for help and guidance. I have earned the utmost respect from my family and within my community. An accomplishment that some can try to lay claim to but will never achieve. I do not purposely cause anger, controversy, and hate. Why? because I am not sick.
For all others: TBE is (thankfully) no longer associated with a NPD and Sociopath Disorder character. It didn't take me but 5 minutes to achieve a diagnosis. HERE IT IS!!!! right off the internet. The sad part is that others recognize this persons problem, have even written to this person about it, and yet the one who REALLY needs to acknowlege it WON'T and never will. Now that I know how sick this person is, nothing that is said about me or the Chief will hurt us, only themself. NOTHING MORE NEEDS TO BE SAID.
DEFINITION OF NPD - NARCISSIST PERSONALITY DISORDER and SOCIOPATH
A pattern of traits and behaviors which signify infatuation and obsession with one's self to the exclusion of all others and the egotistic and ruthless pursuit of one's gratification, dominance and ambition.
The onset of narcissism is in infancy, childhood and early adolescence. It is commonly attributed to childhood abuse and trauma inflicted by parents, authority figures, or even peers.
"Cerebral" Narcissists (derive their narcissistic supply from their intelligence or academic achievements)
An all-pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behaviour), need for admiration or adulation and lack of empathy, usually
beginning by early adulthood and present in various contexts.
Feels grandiose and self-important (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents to the point of lying, demands to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
Is obsessed with fantasies of unlimited success, fame, fearsome power or omnipotence, unequalled brilliance (the cerebral narcissist).
Firmly convinced that he or she is unique and, being special, can only be understood by, should only be treated by, or associate with, other special or unique, or high-status people (or institutions)
Requires excessive admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation - or, failing that, wishes to be feared and to be notorious (narcissistic supply)
Feels entitled. Expects unreasonable or special and favorable priority treatment. Demands automatic and full compliance with his or her expectations
Is "interpersonally exploitative", i.e., uses others to achieve his or her own ends
Devoid of empathy. Is unable or unwilling to identify with or acknowledge the feelings and needs of others
Constantly envious of others or believes that they feel the same about him or her
Arrogant, haughty behaviours or attitudes coupled with rage when frustrated, contradicted, or confronted
Grandiosity rests on such fragile foundations, that any hint of equality, disagreement, or of his needs (for a friend, for instance) threatens the narcissist profoundly. The narcissist is exceedingly insecure.
Classic narcissistic behaviour is when idealisation is followed by devaluation. The devaluating attitude develops as a result of disagreements.
Narcissists do many unnecessary, wrong and even dangerous things in pursuit of the stabilisation of their inflated self-image.
Narcissists will forever shift the blame, pass the buck, and engage in cognitive dissonance. They "pathologise" the other, foster feelings of guilt and shame in the other, demean, debase and humiliate the other, in order to preserve their sense of grandiosity.
Narcissists are pathological liars. They think nothing of it because their very self is FALSE, an invention.
NPD specifically manifests as a pathological craving for attention. Socio/psychopathy manifests as a pathological disregard for anything but self gratification.
Though the two conditions could easily co-exist in the same individual.
When those with NPD are "indifferent, callous and careless," surely this is a by-product of their driving need for attention to which all else is sacrificed. The Sociopath, however, is indifferent, callous and careless OF HIS NATURE, which FACILITATES the destructive pursuit of his personal choice of self gratification.
There is a subcategory of narcissists called "malignant narcissists" that to some extent merge the antisocials and the narcissists.
Inability to form relationships, not even narcissistically twisted relationships, with other humans;
Total disregard for society, its conventions, social cues and social treaties.
Certain narcissists incorporate moral values into their exaggerated sense of superiority. Moral laxity is seen (by the narcissist) as evidence of inferiority and it is those who are unable to remain morally pure who are looked upon with contempt.
Narcissists are simply indifferent, callous and careless in their conduct and in their treatment of their fellow humans. Their abuse of others is off-handed and absent-minded.
The Sociopath adn Narcissist both warp reality to suit their needs. Narcissists are all about image and ego. They will say anything (lie) to make them sound good for the moment, even if it contradicts what they said the day before. The malignant narcissist goes a step further and devalues, criticizes and nitpicks other people. A narcissist is lazy. They are all mouth. They steal the credit. If anything goes wrong, they always have a scapegoat ready to blame. A narcissist only exists in the present. They have gaps in their memory and don't know what they did yesterday (it was a lie, and lies don't have real memories attached).
A sociopath is an extreme narcissist with a sadistic, jealous, vindictive dark side. They have a need to hurt people. They will rationalize and justify getting revenge on people. They are lynch mobs. A sociopath and narcissist seem to have the same, or similar, chemical imbalance. They are not able to empathize. Emotionally stunted, aggressive, self-centered, vain, argumentative, impulsive, volatile, and can be capable of being violent.
--- "A sociopath is an extreme narcissist with a sadistic, jealous, vindictive dark side. They have a need to hurt people."
The plain meaning of this is that a sociopath is a certain type of narcissist.
A sociopath gloats over the pain he creates, because it means he is powerful.
A malignant narcissist is lazy, doing all his work with his mouth, whereas a benign narcissist will often actually strive to be genuinely valuable, and a sociopath can put inexorable and meticulous effort into setting up his victim.
Acharacteristic all three share: Not a one of them gives a damn about the potential negative effects upon others of their self-seeking behavior. The sociopath's stance is: "I want what I want, and somebody else gets to pay for it. Don't get in my way. But then, you don't have the right to escape, and once you're in my headlights I'll chase you all over the road until I get you." The malignant narcissist's stance is: "I want what I want, and somebody else gets to pay for it. Don't get in my way. When I run over you, I'm going to be pissed off if you scratch my paint." The benign narcissist's stance is: "I want what I want, and I'll pay for it--but don't get in my way. If I accidentally happen to run over you, I'm just going to wonder what that bump was."
Narcissists might utilize lying, cheating, stealing and abusing to suit their needs (create a self image) without really thinking through what it does to others.
THERE YOU HAVE IT!!!
Now we all know what type of person we are getting all this twaddle from.
