Superdog
please forget about the "awesomness" comment.
"The Frauds are people who attempt to use their distant ancestry as a selling point to make money selling spirituality that they have yet to really connect to...and if they did....they would know they shouldn't be selling it and how damaging that practice is."
I know what you mean , and what you speak of. WE have ran into it a lot. BUT I still disagree with you on part of it. What I am saying is that there are exceptions to the comments made by people lately. They say things as if their comments include everyone and everything, even though they are specifically talking about only one or two people. That I feel is wrong and incorrect to do.
My nations elders and teachers are one example of this. It has been accepted to go into business using our traditions and knowledge . Let me explain. The business we speak of comes from a native view of business, not the american. But business is still business some say. Too long have elders from my nation and other nations gone starving and broke and homeless and just fade away. Too long are they looked up to for being wise, but then truly looked down upon as beggars and left to die. This I have witnessed from other nations. My own nation has only recently come up with a solution. But its a solution that many here have looked down upon.
Our teachers and elders have turned to accepting money. Selling items and knowledge. BECAUSE OF THIS, they have been able to travel to all of us wherever we are. They are able to feed themselves. They are able to shelter themselves. They have regained there self-dignity as a human being. They have even been able to create centers of gathering for us. Because they have done what others have said is WRONG. They are accepting money. They of course do have some guidelines. Be respectable. Use commone sense in what they offer ( like no selling of ceremonies or lodges ) . Never turn anyone down for lack of funds. But they also have to use commone sense for themselves in that in order for them to do their work, they also have to pay. So money is a necesasry tool for the environment we live in. THIS IS THE ENVIRONMENT OUR ANCESTORS DECIDED TO LIVE IN, whether by free choice or by force. Until things change , we must make do. My nations elders no longer feel like beggars. The self dignity has grown for the better.
When people give up some of their money, money that they worked hard for , it shows that they care. It doesn't matter the amount. It doesn't matter that its 'money'. Money represents labor we have done. Our labor means a lot to us. If I choose to pay for some knowledge, I am giving my teacher somethinng sacred, my physical labor. The sacredness of work being compared to money is something that is lacking in our native communities and it needs to be re looked at.
This does make some things difficult for us to tell whats fake and whats not.
It is also incorrect to make a generalized statement that all elders believe the same things. They do not. Its probably why many of our nations warred with each other in the old days. Disaagreements.
My nations elders have noticed the distantness of our people, and so have a different viewpoint of other nations. Remember we have over 500 of distantness , rather that the 200, or 100, or 50 years for some. We are where many other nations will be or would have been if given 500 years of becoming distant.
Our elders have thought it okay to use books now. Okay to use films. Okay to use websites. WHATEVER it takes now to close the distantness. Too long have we been given FAKE stuff, by even our own hands in attempts to 'protect", that too much damage has been done to overlook. Its time to fix it.
But yes, even we have to beware of fakes. I have to say its easier to tell who's real and who's fake from within ONE"S OWN NATION.
But I would never dare to say someone from another nations is fake or a fraud. NOT after what I've learned and experienced. There's just no way for someone from another nation to know about the other nations ways for sure.
"I have absolutely no problem with your situation koyoteh, but that's the thing...it's YOUR situation. Everybody's different and every situation is different. I've never assumed to know the history of any person of distant ancestry....they usually tell me in the first 2 minutes I meet 'em, but if they don't...that don't matter. They're still a human being and worthy of respect if they have respect for themselves."
I understand. I am not offended. I hope you are not offended by what I just said. I only like conversating. As long as we can all stay calm, I think we can have a good one. What you are saying , I am saying. At least that was what I was trying to say. We are all human and different and deserve respect. I say the benefit of the doubt.
But I also have to say that , No it is not just my situation. It is my people's situation. And also a situation I first experienced by watching other nations go through this. Especially the cali natives. They have a similar situation.
I remember the first time I seen certain people. I was quick to judge , and judged them fakes, 'podias' ( although not using that word ), and looked down on them. This because of the people around me who "knew". I learned , later, about these 'fakes" history and what they went through and why they appeared to me that way. I was the one who was wrong. And so were the people around me especially since they were the ones who "knew" and still judged them in a negative way.
Thank for your thoughts though.