Dear Critter,
I do not find your words to be cold, blunt or destructive. Forgive me if I took anything you said out of context.
It is not my intention to derail the focus of this thread, which is very important. Rather, I hope we can focus on the issues of fraud, predation, cultural appropriation and the destructive, even genocidal, consequences of these. The issues of why people pray or what they pray for is not really our concern, but this is only my opinion.