here in germany we almost lost our spirituel roots.
I have to speak to this. Because I have no spiritual roots. My family did not have any spiritual/religious traditions or beliefs. Oh, sure, my mom's dad apparently he was Lutheran or something, my mom didn't believe in that. My dad's side, I have no idea if they had any religion/spiritual thoughts or beliefs.
Point is, my parents raised us without spiritual beliefs of any kind.
My belief is that for every heart that beats, there is a way/path to Spirit. There is no need to appropriate another's way. Find your own. It might take you 50+ plus years to do so. But that's what it is. There are no short cuts.
The simple fact that what you are doing is upsetting to the people who's way you are confiscating is enough to say it is wrong to do it. These ways were given to these people. They are the only ones who know how it is done, and are the only people who can give permission for a person to do.
When I was 20 years younger, I had difficulty in 'understanding' the 'idea' of 'stolen' spiritual ways. I understand something different now.
There is plenty of Spirit to go around for all, what is given to one people is their way .. it is sacred in that. In that it was given to them.. they are the holders of such way. Respect that. Without communal consent to you, or permission, you are stealing.
People seem to not recognize and respect a block on the path. What I mean is, ok, so you walking along, and come across a block.. in this case, the block is that the spiritual way you wish to use is not yours, not given to you to use. Instead of respecting that and moving on, they use it anyway. Blocks are put on the path for reason.
Let's say you walking and come to a 20 foot hedge. Instead of finding another way through to where you are wanting to be, you just cut down the hedge. You think you are there now, you're not. You may be arrived to the other side of the hedge, but you are not there. Turn around and look at how you arrived. Behind you is destruction of the very thing you were seeking. You tore it down to get to where you wanted to be. It is selfish. And of no respect. People want want want.. but never take the path to it.. they mow it down in their false feeling of needing 'now'.
Find another way. Recognize and respect the blocks in your path and walk accordingly.