Might as well drop the charade, Ms. Kerr ("Tobasco"), we know it's you. (Although I guess you prefer "Mistress Kerr" when not going by "Lady")
If you're not Wiccan, why the "Lady" thing? Is it part of selling your dominatrix services? Are you now claiming to be Welsh royalty? It's usually only American Wiccans who give themselves those grandiose titles. If you have left Mr. Sourbeer, it might be worthwhile to tell people why.
I googled your email. You have some horrific stuff out there on the fetish and bondage forums. I mean, we were already getting that vibe from the fake-Tantra and "sex surrogate" for pay stuff. But really.... To post that stuff online then try to come here and claim you're a spiritual leader...
Reiki is not Celtic. There really isn't such a thing as "Druid heritage." The Druids were the learned and professional class of the ancient Celtic cultures. While some families tended to produce a larger share of people with particular talents (poets, law-givers, healers, ceremonial leaders, or other professions), no one inherited the title. You had to earn it. The Irish-language titles for some of the druidic ranks in Ireland are still in use - for University professors, Phds, and others with Doctorate degrees. If you were really from a Celtic culture, you would know this.
We don't just go on people's self-reporting here, or on the titles they claim to have. We listen to their words. We look at the pictures they've posted of themselves. In this case, you and your former partner have posted a lot of information about yourselves, including photographs of yourselves doing your naked fake-Tantra/Wiccan rituals, and offering various sexual services for sale.* We can see with our own eyes there is nothing authentically Celtic, Native, or Hindu Tantra about it. Moreover, there is a serious concern now that you may be connected to some of the sex trafficking groups who try to use these activities as a front.
Seriously, it's not cool to come here and pretend to be someone else while speaking on your own behalf. You may be used to selling your sick services to ignorant people. We aren't ignorant here.
I know very little of mr. Sourbeer. I combed the entire website of Ms. Young (Jebjou) and there is no mention of Shaman or shamanism. I have been to see her 3 times in past few months and she never pretends to be anything but what she is. Does not even talk about her Druid heritage unless one enquires, which I did after reading this. Her grandmother was from Anglessey/Wales(not certain how to spell) and passed along some of the old Celtic healing techniques and she uses some of her recipes in her healing is all I could get from her.
She also works with animals, that's how I met her originaly as I had a horse that needed Reiki. I find her to be quite humble & refreshing. My first appointment I was low on cash, she just said, worry about it next time, let's get you well.
*ETA: We already have the link to
http://www.jebijou.com/bio.htm posted, where she offers her services as a sex surrogate, but I'm adding a screencap here. I'm not sure what the legalities of this are in her state, but in most places I am aware of it is a form of quasi-legal prostitution. As the surrogate usually has sex with the clients in a therapists' office (if they're actually working legally with an accredited sex therapist), it's arguably safer than working the streets. But in my opinion, someone who posts elsewhere about delighting in sadism is probably not the best person to be teaching people about sex. And it still monetizes the sacred.
