Many of the histories that is explained about Canada is the same for the United States, and many of our adopted foster and boarding school people came home to find their families like me. Many have been posted but today we find that many can search their families and we welcome back our people but we also have fraud who use this history against us. If you claiming to be a shaman you better tells who you family are! You don't become a SHAMAN in america of course you don't become a spiritual leader with out family and people. I stand by what i say if you claim to be a medicine man, spiritual leaders, sundance leader, shaman you better know you family.
One of the things i see is these frauds claims; i was adopted and now he is shaman? Or that i was taken from my family now i am Shaman, Our history as native people is one of horror and tragedy but there are rules we have followed for thousand of years, I will not change my statement if you don't know your family you are not native, this is referring to those who claim to be shaman or the abuser of our culture. I understand boarding school both me and my husband were boarding school people along with my mother and grandmother. I help my people everyday fund their roots, but people who have been losted in this system don't become shamans, i know my history and my relatives in Canada and no matter what you can not be a medicine person with knowing your famliy and being taught for a life time.
Thank-you for sharing your opinions, generalizations, and experience. Your voice is as important as anyone else’s here and I agree with some of what you are saying. I’m not sure if you read the entirety of my previous post, or took the time to reflect on what I wrote and the facts I shared. If you haven’t had the time to do that yet, I encourage you to do so.
I didn’t ever refer to medicine people or shamans. In fact, when I hear someone say they are a shaman or that they are studying to become a shaman, I just laugh. Why? Because it’s laughable don’t you think? They are welcome to their delusions in the same way we are each welcome to our own opinions. Delusions and opinions are not facts. When those delusions and opinions hurt, abuse, and exploit others, we speak up. We try to change things.
I understand that you are a proud Lakota woman, and that you are proud of your contributions to your People and Land. It’s good that you speak up for them as you carry a lot of wisdom and knowledge about Your People.
The problem is when you make assumptions about other People and Lands. The Lakota (and LDN people as a whole) are a small but vital part of “Indian Country” and much exploitation has occurred. In Canada, we are somewhat lucky I suppose because invasion and colonization of our Lands and People came much later than for your people, at least in the West. Many Ceremonies and artifacts were kept by the People, for the People, and in some instances the signing of both Treaty 7 and Treaty 6 were “helpful” in this, despite being disastrous in many other ways.
I speak of Treaty 7 because I live on Treaty 7 land in Southern Alberta Canada. I don’t speak for all Treaty 7 people obviously; I think that speaking for others is both rude and disrespectful. Treaty 7 Territory is comprised of 3 distinct Blackfoot First Nations (Siksika, Kainai, Northern Peigan), one distinct Nakoda First Nation (Stoney--comprised of 3 bands: Bearspaw, Chiniki and Wesley/Goodstoney), and the Tsuu T’ina First Nation (which is Dene). Treaty 6 lands are in Northern Alberta, and parts of Saskatchewan and Manitoba. There are more than 50 distinct nations represented by the Confederacy of Treaty Six First Nations, including Plains Cree, Woodland Cree, and Assiniboine, but I will list them all here for your information:
Alberta
• Alexander First Nation
• Alexis First Nation
• Beaver Lake Cree Nation
• Cold Lake First Nation
• Enoch Cree Nation
• Ermineskin Tribe
• Frog Lake First Nation
• Heart Lake First Nation
• Kehewin Cree Nation
• Louis Bull First Nation
• Michel First Nation
• Montana First Nation
• O'Chiese First Nation
• Paul First Nation
• Saddle Lake Cree Nation
• Samson First Nation
• Sunchild First Nation
• Saddle Lake Cree Nation
Manitoba
• Marcel Colomb First Nation
• Mathias Colomb First Nation
Saskatchewan
• Ahtahkakoop First Nation
• Beardy's and Okemasis First Nation
• Big Island Lake Cree Nation
• Big River First Nation
• Chakastaypasin First Nation
• Flying Dust First Nation
• Island Lake First Nation
• James Smith First Nation
• Lac La Ronge First Nation
• Little Pine First Nation
• Lucky Man First Nation
• Makwa Sahgaiehcan First Nation
• Mistawasis First Nation
• Montreal Lake Cree Nation
• Moosomin First Nation
• Mosquito-Grizzly Bear's Head-Lean Man
• Muskeg Lake Cree Nation
• Muskoday First Nation
• One Arrow First Nation
• Onion Lake Cree Nation
• Pelican Lake First Nation
• Peter Ballantyne Cree Nation
• Poundmaker Cree Nation
• Red Pheasant First Nation
• Whitefish Lake First Nation
• Saulteaux First Nation
• Sweetgrass First Nation
• Sturgeon Lake First Nation
• Thunderchild First Nation
• Waterhen Lake First Nation
• Witchekan Lake First Nation
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Treaty_6)
My point is that there are many Nations, many voices, many experiences, many opinions, and many facts. I prefer to share facts when I am referring to anything other than my own personal realizations and experiences. To generalize one’s own cultural teachings to other people and nations is disrespectful.
Where I live, things are different than where you live. Your generalizations sometimes make me feel both sad and angry. From previous communications, for example, I know that you hold Arvol Looking Horse in high regard. Sometimes it seems like you have the mistaken belief that Mr Looking Horse is like a Pope for all spiritual and cultural matters for all FNMI people across the US and Canada (ps there is no "America"). This is simply not true, and is in fact degrading, dismissive, and disrespectful. A quick google check on Mr Looking Horse shows that there are some LDN people who have charged him with fraud, but that’s none of my business or concern. I don’t see his name on these pages, but that may be because many traditional people do not use the internet to reveal fraudulent people and behaviours. Or it may mean that he is innocent. I don’t know Mr Looking Horse personally, and I have little doubt that he is a kind person, but he has absolutely no authority over other people and nations.
Which brings me to this recent post of yours:
all non-natives can not have a pipes and can not dance in a sun dance according to the Keeper of the pipe
I recognize this opinion from the numerous other times you have shared it. I’m familiar with the Declaration of War Against Lakota Spirituality and other similar documents that strongly suggest the same. However, if in fact Mr Looking Horse and the claim that he is the 19th generation Keeper of a Pipe is true, and that those claiming he is a fraud because he is unwilling or unable to produce evidence of this are wrong, it in no way affects me and others living on Treaty 7 Territory or anywhere else. If other First Nations reward Pipes, Head Dresses, or opportunities of both privilege and honour to non-Native people, that is up to those Leaders of those Nations to do so. It is no business of Mr Looking Horse, or you—although you are still free to have an opinion about that.
There is an old cliché: “Opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one.” When opinion is disguised as fact, we all lose. People get false information which leads to false assumptions, NAFPS is downgraded into another hotspot for gossip and defamation, good people avoid contributing their own knowledge and wisdom to this forum and leave, and the frauds and hucksters gain free reign to further exploit and abuse. A simple solution is to be clear when we are stating an opinion, a generalization, or a teaching that is culturally specific.
You write: “there are rules we have followed for thousand of years .” I think Respect is one of those rules.