It was harmful in that I suffered rape at the hands of more than one therapist in the movement. One in the name of trying to convince me that I was not a lesbian. He was Stanley Keleman. Kingpin in Bioenergetic therapy. When I got pregnant he made me go to a notary and sign a paper relieving him of all responsibility. So yes, I know the destructive side of the nuage movement.
Hello Eileen, and welcome to the boards
I am horrified to hear of your abuse at the hands of "therapists", but also not surprised
Unfortunately there are many corrupt, predatory and just plain deluded therapists who use the pretext of energy therapy to sexually and otherwise abuse patients. Some of these "therapists" are members of the deer tribe, some are members of "schools of tantra" or even own their own "tantric" businesses. Typically they claim to release sexual blockages and cure trauma trapped in the body via sexual massage. Some claim to be able to recover repressed memories of childhood sexual abuse by sexual massage. These "therapists" are both male and female. Unfortunately these depraved practices are fairly widespread leaving countless victims feeling traumatised, violated and often extremely confused by what has happened to them.
Yours is the first instance that I have heard of involving "corrective rape" (a common term in South Africa where lesbians are frequently raped to "turn" them heterosexual).
Thank you for bringing Stanley Keleman to my attention. He joins the depressingly long list on "therapists" on my radar.
I hope you don't mind me asking but have you been able to get any support from friends and family after the rapes? Do you feel that you are in a safe place now where you are understood? I hope that we can at least be some support to you here.