I knew Bobby for several years. Here are some facts. He has some healing abilities. He will doctor just about anyone who asks for his help. His non-native wife is a total sweatheart. What will it take for him to help you by doctoring or developing your native spirituality? MONEY, lots and lots of it. For a healing session, he expects and will tell you around 300-400 dolloars. If you offer less he will push you for more. Vision quest, 1200-1500 dollars, plus a pendleton blanket (300 more), plus gas and other items along the way. So, around 2k total. If the trip is cancelled for some reason, don't expect your money back either. If you want to spend time trying to learn, expect to continually bring money, wood and "gifts." If you stop feeding him money at any time he will bug you for more. Most of what he teaches you in person is the same stuff in his books. When women are around, yes he does make sexual comments that leave you feeling uneasy. As for other stuff involving women, I wont discuss that in open forum. Hope this helps.